Blog: Go Ahead and Ask Me

April 13, 2018

Listen Your Way Toward Your Mate

  So, now, here you are feeling butterflies in the tummy because some boy or girl thinks you’re hot.  You’ve decided that your new person is […]
April 13, 2018

Feel Your Way toward Your Mate

  You can feel your way toward that right person for you.  Feel, not think.  Right now, imagine being your partner self.  Be what you want […]
April 13, 2018

An Alternative Notion of What is Fair

      [This text is an excerpt from my book, Unequal Partnership: a dating guide for loving non-egalitarian relationships.]   Unequal partners create and maintain […]
April 13, 2018

Our Families Never Asked How We Felt but They Cared for Us

  I just had tea with a stranger.  We swapped stories about our lives, including some oldies but goodies from our childhoods.  I was reminded that […]