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1. I can help with setting new relationships on a solid sustainable foundation.
2. Empty-nesters who want to start a new understanding with each other might enjoy a conversation with me.

Female Empowerment

My work has a particular heart-centered focus of aiding the empowerment of women. I teach. I write. I counsel. Stronger together.

Alternative Lifestyles

Are you wanting a deep discussion about very personal matters? I can hear you just fine.

Get professional, supportive care from an experienced counselor.

Female Empowerment

Individual Counseling

Couples Counseling

Alternative Lifestyle Counseling

Open Relationships and Polyamory

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Feminism is about being able to choose. I am a feminist.  Every male in my personal sphere is an equality activist.

You are a WOMAN who gives and gives. When and where do you get to replenish, to heal?

Use your RESOURCES to restore and replenish yourself in your private life.  There will be more of you and a healthier you in the world.

YOU can take every experience and use it to fuel where you want to go. I’ll show you how.

Each of us, women, got put in a box. Step out. CHOOSE to be you.

YOU can shine as a LEADER within your family. Create a family plan together. 

Retrain yourself to be a LEADER in your own life for your own sake.

Make your private life a spiritual haven that renews you and contributes to the larger whole at the same time.

I offer you the respect that you deserve plus a shoulder to lean on.

This topic is so important that I founded a female empowerment organization—Elevate Women Collaborative, LLC.  Learn more at  Join a loving support community for professional women.  

  Everyone wants deep emotional connection.

  Every person has talents and skills and creativity to offer     another. You have a lot to give.  Individual coaching or   counseling.

  If you are looking for a healthy, sustainable intimate relationship then

  LOOK for a real partner who focuses on YOUR NEEDS, just as you will do the same.

  If you are in an intimate relationship have you learned to  assess what you have, checked in with your partner regularly  and often, discussed relationship goals, and negotiated and negotiated again and again as time goes on?

  I offer you safety.

  I offer you kindness and respect. I offer you compassion.

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Close your eyes. Take a deep breath.

Let it out slowly and realize that you are safe with me.

Everyone has a private life.

You deserve to have yours any way you want it.

There isn’t any life situation that I cannot hold with you.

ALTERNATIVE means having your life the way you want it. You can have what you want. You can design for your needs, including your relationship needs.

I offer you safety.

You have the right to feel.

You have the right to feel how you want to feel.

As a teacher, Aisha has a positive, uplifting viewpoint. She has genuinely helpful instructions that others can benefit from. I like her teaching method and I'm proud of her as a teacher and I am sure more people would like to hear what she has to say.---Dr. W. Li


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News post: Aisha-Sky has founded an organization that supports women’s personal development. Elevate Women Collaborative is an education center and loving support community for professional women at
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